What happened to me in 07

January, I had a guy come down from SF to learn from me for 3 nights. The second night I met a great girl at Highlands night club (we have been dating ever since), and met another girl the 3rd night (who I later FC) at a restaurant we went to.

In February, went to celebrate Carnivale in Rio De Janiero with Karl a.ka. PapiChulo who has been my roommate since May and JT a.k.a. The Asian Playboy, no longer friends. Had a great time going to the beach everyday and eating Acai in the mornings, and then going to bars mostly and Lapa to drink and meet girls at night.

I was not as successful this time with girls in Rio as last time. What we found out was that most of the locals leave Rio to celebrate in Bahia, and the prostitutes from far away cities in Brazil come to Rio. Still in Lapa I managed to get quick make outs with many girls on the streets, usually within a minute or less of meeting them. One particular instance 2 girls called me over and invited me to play a game with them. The game was I make out with both of them, and then there male friend, which I and he declined, but I did make out with the girls. :) Then a few nights later back in Lapa, Karl and I ran into them again, they had a new female friend with them so I played the game with her too. Karl was usually also able to get some action from the girls friends standing by and watching. By the end of the 2 week trip I probably made out with over 15 different girls, got a hj from one girl I brought back to my apt, missed out on a potential 4 some with the married one I had a 3some with before, gave another girl some finger action on the beach one night, and another girl I was able to FC twice back in my apt. Karl got make out with quite a few girls as did JT, but none of them were able to pull and FC any girls this trip. Being white with blond hair has it's advantages for me in Brazil :)

In March I went to Vegas to help JT teach a 6 person boot camp.

For the rest of the year as far as pick up goes, I was not very active because of the LTR I am in.

One more thing, Ranko a.k.a. Shark sent me a copy of his DVD series, and even though I haven't taken the time to write a full review. I'll just say that they are really good, the production quality is on par with Hollywood. The material is also really more in depth and you get specifics and the best thing is to see actual real footage of students with loud and clear audio of them opening up girls on the streets and in clubs too. The video quality of the club approaches is even better than what The Pick Up Artist TV show was able to do.

That's the year 2007 in a nutshell. In 08 i'll be going to Philippines for 2 weeks to visit my LTR girl.

My favorite personal playlist I put on when i'm with a girl.

http://rhaplinks.real.com/rhaplink?rhapid=3668721&type=playlist&title=Playlist&from=heineken_2005

My interview CD on sale now!

Back in September I was interviewed by Robert Torrery from Attract & Date to start off a series of Teleseminars. On the CD I discuss my background, history and give some more details about my game and what I do after using a direct opener.

UPDATE: 11-3-07 Soon I will post the interview along with pictures for free.

2 NEW ANNOUCEMENTS

1 st

I'll be in Rio for Carnival from February 9th to the 24th. During that time The Asian Playboy and I will be doing a group bootcamp for 3 days $900. Go to his blog and sign up, the link for it is on the column in the right side of this webpage.

2nd

This was copied from APB'S website; if enough guys sign up i'll be co in structing at this one.

The LAST GROUP BOOTCAMP UNDER $1000 will be in VEGAS for March 9 - 11. That's right, boys and girls, the place where I am 100% in getting at least one of my students hooked up in all THREE Vegas bootcamps I've done. OCWaterBoy and (perhaps) an Assistant Coach will be helping out so this is going to be BIG! Can I do 4 for 4? The real question is, CAN YOU AFFORD TO MISS OUT?

You can also sign up for that from his blog.

The Top 10 Interesting facts about sex.

My comments are in (parentheses)

The Top 10 Interesting Facts About SexCategory: Relationships, Relating, Couples (BB493)
Originally Submitted on 7/8/2006.

David M. Buss author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating, is a professor of psychology at the unify. of Michigan. He and his colleagues interviewed over 10,000 people of all ages from 37 cultures worldwide, and his book is full of interesting facts.

1. In the US there are between 100,000 and 500,000 prostitutes; inTokyo more than 300,000; Poland, 230,000; Addis Ababa in Ethiopia, 80,000; Germany, 50,000 legally registered, and 3x that many illegal.

(I have been to Germany, and saw the prostitutes working the street, and some were pretty damn hot, they are actually required to wear a uniform, which is platform shoes and a mini skirt)

2. A man's sperm count increases dramatically, the longer he is separated from his partner.

3. Contemporary studies show that the single best predictor of extramarital sex is premarital
sexual permissiveness -- people who have many sexual partners before marriage are more unfaithful than those who have few sexual partners before marriage.

(HMM, I always believed this to be the opposite case, so this is saying I'm very likely to cheat on my future wife someday.)

4. People in China, India, Indonesia, Iran, Taiwan and the Palestinian Arab areas of Israel attach a high value to chastity in a potential mate.

At the opposite extreme, people in Sweden, Norway, Finland, the Netherlands, West Germany and France believe virginity is largely irrelevant or unimportant in a potential mate.

5. Men prefer a woman whose waist-to-hip ratio is 0.67 to 0.80. This indicates good health and probably fertility.

Healthy, reproductively capable women have a waist-to-hip ratio between 0.67 and 0.80, while healthy men have a ratio in the range of 0.85 to 0.95.

The waist-to-hip ratio has been proven to correlate with fertility in women, and in long-term health status. The w-t-h ratio of Playboy centerfolds and beauty contest winners in the US over the past 30 years shows that although the 'winners' got thinner, the ratio has remained exactly 0.70.

6. Over lifetime, men would like to have 18 sexual partners, and women, 4 or 5.

(I told myself until recently that 20 was my magic number, now I'm over 20 partners)

7. The Coolidge effect is a worldwide documented phenomenon in humans, and mammals.
Men are more sexually aroused by "new" females.

8. "Beer goggles" is not invented. It's called perceptual shift. Men rate women as more attractive as the night goes on, regardless of how much they may or may not have imbibed.

(I can attest to this personally, I think scarcity has to do with this. And usually towards closing time is when guys will get more aggressive in the way they approach women.)

9. Women want about the same thing in a short-term sex partner and a husband. Men's
preferences are quite different.

Women, for both short- and long-term want a man who is kind, romantic, understanding, exciting, stable, healthy, humorous, generous with resource, tall, athletic and attractive.

(What must be taken into consideration is that these answers were gathered from a survey, and not data taken from looking at what kind of guys these women have dated or slept with, like F.J. Shark wrote, The things you may write down on a grocery list, aren't always the things you end up buying. Out of the personality traits listed above the ones that you should focus on developing to attract girls for the short term are; exciting, stable (confident), healthy, attractive and humorous. They did not define short term, let's say it's a one night stand, the other traits listed; kind, romantic, understanding, gernerous with resource=not cheap, tall, and athletic are irrelevant. Because mostly only party girls are into ONS, and they do not care or want to build that much rapport with a guy before sleeping with him)

Men relax their standards considerably for short-term. For instance, they abhor promiscuity in a potential wife but consider it neutral or mildy desirable for short-term.

(Totally agree, it's a double standard I know, tough luck girls)

Interestingly, however, is the fact that for a wife they require less "attractiveness" than for a short-term partner.

10. Married women have an affair when they are dissatisfied with their current relationship. Men who have affairs are no more or less unhappy with their marriage than men who don't.


About the SubmitterThis piece was originally submitted by Susan Dunn, MA, Clinical Psychology, Founding Member of Coachville, Coach, who can be reached at sdunn@susandunn.cc, or visited on the web. Susan Dunn wants you to know: Susan trains and certifies coaches worldwide in a comprehensive, fast, no residency program designed to fit your individual needs and accommodate your schedule. She offers individual coaching, business programs, Internet courses and ebooks. She is the author of Midlife Dating Survival Manual for Women and "It's a Jungle Out There' internet interactive course giving how-tos for dealing with difficult people. Sign up here for one of her 5 free ezines. . The original source is: David Buss, Ph.D., The Evolution of Desire.

LR: 4th of July beach pickup, Field Report and Lay report

Field Report

On the 4th of July down here in my hometown in Orange County the beach is packed day and night with people from all over southern California. My wing and I walk down to the beach with only our towels in hand to soak up the sun, maybe do some body surfing, and meet girls. We walk around for about 10 minutes past a bunch of families and such looking for groups of girls alone to lay by. When we see a group of 6 young girls and a group of 2 girls and a empty spot in between them, I know this is the place to stop.

One of the girls in the 2 set on the left of me is talking on her cell phone for a long while, and when she finishes she goes out into the water with her friend. As she walks out to the water I get a good look at her body and ass and like what I see. My wing and I hear 6 girls next to us talking in a foreign language, but can't tell yet if its Portuguese or Spanish. He thinks there Spanish so he opens them with I forgot what. And ends up talking to just one of them for about 6 minutes and finds out there all from Spain and studying here, but there all High School students, and not of legal age yet. So he ejects.

Soon after he ejects the 2set comes back from the water, while the girl on the phone was gone I noticed her towel has some countries flag on it. And she had a slightly darker skin tone than her friend, so when she layed back down on her towel I opened with "Hey, what nationality are you?" She says "guess" What ever I guessed it was wrong, she says "I'm American, but I have a good tan" "I'm American too, but long ago my grandparents came from all parts of Europe" I say. She said "yeah, I'm a European mutt too". Then she asks me what I do. She gave me and IOI back, After that I went into my usual game of qualifying, storytelling and wide and deep rapport. We ended up talking for over an hour, until she and her friend said they were going to go back to there car for sandwiches and beer. But they would be back in a few hours to watch the fireworks. I told her let's meet up later to watch them together, and in case I don't see you again take my number. I would have taken hers instead but I did not bring my with me. I told her to call me later, so we can meet up.

Later that night she called me and told me where she was so we could meet them to watch the fireworks. But by the time we got down there the fireworks were already 15 minutes in progress, and when I tried calling her after 1 ring it went straight to Voice mail. After the fireworks were over I tried calling but the system was busy, I texted her then telling her exactly where I was at. We waited around there for 10 minutes then I said fuck it, I guess she lost interest.

A day later I texted her saying "I wanted to see you again last night, but you disappeared on me." She called me later that night but I was sleeping already and didn't answer. She left a voicemail apologizing and also said she wanted to see me again too. I called her the next day but got her voicemail and told her, "ok good, let's go out this week" She called me late night again and left another vm giving me her schedule for the rest of the week. I texted her saying Friday night was good and come to my city. She agreed.

Lay Report

Friday night she comes over around 7:30 at night, I bring her into the apt and introduce her to my roommate, we chat with her a bit then I take her into my room and introduce her to some new Indie artists and music she has not heard before. A half hour later I take her to one of my favorite day 2 places, The Indoor Shooting range! I start off with a small caliber .22 ruger, I shoot first then let her shoot and teach her how to handle and shoot the gun properly. After she gets comfortable with that, I go and get the 9mm Glock. After each clip she shoots, she gets better and better and really starts enjoying it more. 10pm comes and the place is closing. We were already both hungry before the shooting, so we decide to get some food. I prefer to cook but it's already 10pm and if I cook we won't be eating till about 11pm. So we got to a Italian restaurant. And when the bill comes she takes it and pays for it. How cool is that?

It's around 12am by the time we get back to my apt, I go to use the bathroom, and my roommates are watching some standup comedian on the TV in the living room. She sits down to watch with them. After I leave the bathroom I go right into my room to get ready for what's coming next. A few minutes later she comes to find me in my room, I put back on the music and were both reclining back on my bed. My bed is a futon bed, you can put into 3 different positions, full upright, reclining, or flat. It's kinda uncomfortable to recline and face each other while talking so I grab her hand and pull her up off the bed. I put it flat, so we can both lie down and talk while facing each other. (But the reason I really did it was because when we want to fuck, we won't have to stop, get up and the put it lying flat.)

Nearly right after I put it down flat, I move over her and start kissing her for the first time. Then I moved on top to dry hump her and get her more horny. I made my way down her body from her breasts to her pussy kissing all the way. I gave her an orgasm then I put on a condom and she gave me one. We layed around a little bit after, but it was now 2:30am she put her clothes back on and told me you look tired you don't have to walk me out to my car just stay here, and call me she says.

It's been over a week but I never called and either has she, I think she knew too it was only a 1 time thing.

The next day I did not wake up till 11:55 am and I only did when I heard my phone beep from receiving a text message. It's from a girl I met that Monday night in Hollywood who happens to live really close to me, it said "Meet us at the beach". Unfortunately she was not at our local beach but a little farther down, and I had things to do today, so I could not meet her. A week has now passed and I have not got another offer like that from her yet. [b]Moral of the story, take advantage of opportunities like that when she are presented to you. Because you may either have to wait or not get another one like that. [/b]

OCWaterboy

LR: Numero 4 from Brasil

I wrote in a previous FR from last Saturday night where I went to and met a really beautiful 20 year old local girl and made out with her. Ever since I got her phone number we have been sending text messages back and forth to each other. I used http://babelfish.altavista.com/ to translate the sweet, romantic messages from english to portuguese, that Ranko suggests to send to girls after meeting them. She loved the ones I sent to her. I find it easier to communicate with girls by way of text when neither of us are fluent in each others native language. I called her once, but it was pretty difficult to communicate in english over the phone. When we did talk she told me she could not see me until Friday night, which was 5 days away still. But she did not tell me why, I later found out through text that she is away Monday through Friday at school which is over a 2 hour distance from Rio. I really like this girl a lot and I was dissapointed I was going to have to wait so many days to see her again. I can get impatient at times waiting for girls, especially in this case because time is not on my side. Or is it? ;)

FRIDAY NIGHT FINALLY ARRIVES

Earlier through text I gave her my ICQ number so we could chat online. When I came online to check my email I see her online too, we chat for a bit and I find out shes now back in Rio, but can´t see me till tonight, so we make plans to get together. It is my last night here in Rio, she came over around 10:30pm and showed up with a guy. But soon after meeting him he immediately left, thank god. Earlier she had talked about going to Lapa to listen to live brazilian music, but she said unfortunately it was to late to go to that now. :) What are we to do? So I took her upto my apt, showed her some pics of my family, played some rock music which she loves on my MP3 player. We drank coke, only coke because she does not drink alcohol.

To be continued...

LR: HB Costa Rican

Short version

Layed my 3rd girl here so far, met her on Tuesday night, went out with her Wednesday, brought her back to my apt. And she sucked me off, then we fucked late into the night.

Maybe when I get back to U.S. Sunday I will post the rest of the details.